{"id":6459,"date":"2022-06-09T23:43:15","date_gmt":"2022-06-09T23:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/?p=6459"},"modified":"2023-04-12T12:26:31","modified_gmt":"2023-04-12T12:26:31","slug":"the-empowerment-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/the-empowerment-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag\/","title":{"rendered":"THE EMPOWERMENT- By Mariette Kammerer -The Healing Mind Magazine"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Empowerment<\/h1>\n

“Let go of the people who are not ready to love you.
\nThis is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will be the most important.
\nStop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
\nStop showing up for people
\nwho have no interest in your presence.<\/p>\n

I know your instinct is to do everything possible to gain the esteem of those around you, but it’s an impulse that robs your time, your energy, and your mental and physical health.
\nWhen you start fighting for a life of joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be willing to follow you to that place.
\nThat doesn’t mean you have to change who you are, it means you have to let go of the people who aren’t willing to follow you.
\nIf you are excluded, insulted, forgotten, or ignored by the people you give your time to, you are not doing yourself any favors by continuing to offer them your energy and your life.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you. That’s what makes meeting people so special, with whom you have friendship or love.<\/p>\n

You will know how precious it is because you’ve experienced what it’s not.
\nThe more time you spend loving someone who is not capable of loving you back, the more time you waste on the possibility of connecting with someone else who can and will love you back.<\/p>\n

There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will meet you, and be at your level, interest, and commitment.
\nThe longer you continue to engage with people using you as a cushion, a background option, or a therapist for their emotional healing,
\nthe further you move away from the community you want.<\/p>\n

If you stop showing up, they may not seek you out.
\nIf you stop trying, the relationship is over.
\nMaybe if you stop messaging, your phone goes dark for weeks.
\nThat doesn’t mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing that kept it was the energy that only you gave to keep it going.
\nThat’s not love, it’s attachment.<\/p>\n

It means wanting to give those who don’t deserve it, a chance!
\nYou deserve a lot.
\nThere are people who should not be in your life, you will realize.
\nThe most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy, as both are limited.
\nWhat you invest your time and energy in will define your existence.<\/p>\n

When you realize this, you will begin to understand why you are so upset when you spend time with people, in activities, places, or situations that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you, they rob you of energy.
\nYou will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and for everyone around you is to protect your energy more than anything else.
\nMake your life a safe haven where only \u2032compatible\u2032\u2032 people are allowed.<\/p>\n

You are not responsible for saving anyone.
\nYou are not responsible for convincing them to be better.
\nIt is not your job to exist for people and give them your life!
\nBecause if you feel bad, if you feel obligated, you will be the root of all your problems because you are afraid that they will not return the favors you have granted.
\nIt is your only duty to realize that you are the master of your destiny and accept the love you think you deserve.
\nDecide that you deserve real friendship, real commitment, and full love with healthy and prosperous people.<\/p>\n

Then wait and see how much everything changes and will change, that’s for sure, with positive people with good energy, don’t waste time with people who are not worth it, the change will give you the love, treasures, happiness and protection you deserve. ”
\nSource: FaceBook (Anthony Hopkins, 84 years old)<\/p>\n<\/div>