{"id":9605,"date":"2023-02-18T16:42:22","date_gmt":"2023-02-18T16:42:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/?p=9605"},"modified":"2023-04-12T12:08:03","modified_gmt":"2023-04-12T12:08:03","slug":"bullying-it-starts-at-home-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/bullying-it-starts-at-home-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag\/","title":{"rendered":"BULLYING, IT STARTS AT HOME &#8211;  By Mariette Kammerer -The Healing Mind Magazine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#e2e2e2;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start\" style=\"max-width:1352px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_3_5 3_5 fusion-flex-column\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BULLYING &#8211; It Starts At HOME<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a child in a family is bullying others, parents and family members need to take action to address the behavior and prevent it from continuing. Here are some steps that can be taken within a family unit when their child is the bully:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><em>Address\u00a0the behavior:<\/em><\/strong> Parents and family should talk to the child and let them know their behavior is unacceptable. It is essential to be clear about what the child is doing wrong and why it is unacceptable.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em><strong>Set clear rules and consequences:<\/strong> <\/em>The child should be given clear rules about what behaviors are unacceptable and what the consequences will be if they engage in bullying. The consequences should be firm, consistent, and enforced every time the behavior occurs.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><em>Teach empathy and respect:<\/em> <\/strong>Parents and family members can help the child develop empathy and respect for others by modeling these behaviors and teaching them how to put themselves in other people&#8217;s shoes.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><em>Seek professional help:<\/em><\/strong> If the child&#8217;s behavior continues despite efforts to address it, it may be necessary to seek the help of a professional counselor or therapist who works with children who exhibit bullying behavior. They can work with the child and the family to address the underlying issues contributing to the behavior.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><em>Monitor the child&#8217;s behavior:<\/em><\/strong> Parents and family members should monitor the child&#8217;s behavior closely to ensure that they are not engaging in bullying. Communicating regularly with teachers and other caregivers is essential to stay informed about the child&#8217;s behavior in different settings.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is <strong><em>essential<\/em><\/strong> for parents and family members <strong><em>to take the bullying issue seriously and address the behavior as soon as it is identified<\/em><\/strong>. 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