{"id":9648,"date":"2023-02-18T20:21:39","date_gmt":"2023-02-18T20:21:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/?p=9648"},"modified":"2023-08-31T23:04:35","modified_gmt":"2023-08-31T23:04:35","slug":"bullies-in-marriage-or-relationships-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingmindmagazine.com\/newedition\/bullies-in-marriage-or-relationships-by-mariette-kammerer-the-healing-mind-mag\/","title":{"rendered":"BULLIES In Marriage or Relationships &#8211;  By Mary Smith -The Healing Mind Magazine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#e2e2e2;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start\" style=\"max-width:1352px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_3_5 3_5 fusion-flex-column\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<div class=\"w-full border-b border-black\/10 dark:border-gray-900\/50 text-gray-800 dark:text-gray-100 group dark:bg-gray-800\">\n<div class=\"text-base gap-4 md:gap-6 m-auto md:max-w-2xl lg:max-w-2xl xl:max-w-3xl p-4 md:py-6 flex lg:px-0\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"w-full border-b border-black\/10 dark:border-gray-900\/50 text-gray-800 dark:text-gray-100 group bg-gray-50 dark:bg-&#091;#444654&#093;\">\n<div class=\"text-base gap-4 md:gap-6 m-auto md:max-w-2xl lg:max-w-2xl xl:max-w-3xl p-4 md:py-6 flex lg:px-0\">\n<div class=\"relative flex w-&#091;calc(100%-50px)&#093; 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However, here are a few potential reasons why someone might allow themselves to be bullied in a marriage or partnership:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Fear: The victim may be afraid of the consequences of leaving or standing up to their partner. This fear could be related to physical harm, financial instability, or the loss of the relationship.<\/li>\n<li>Low self-esteem: The victim may have low self-esteem or self-worth, which can make it difficult to set boundaries and stand up for themselves.<\/li>\n<li>Learned behavior: The victim may have grown up in an environment where bullying was the norm, and may not recognize it as unacceptable behavior.<\/li>\n<li>Emotional dependency: The victim may be emotionally dependent on their partner and may feel that they cannot function without them, which can make it difficult to leave.<\/li>\n<li>Belief in the partner&#8217;s behavior: The victim may believe that their partner&#8217;s bullying behavior is justified, or that they somehow deserve it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>It is important to remember that no one deserves to be bullied or abused in a relationship, and there is never an excuse for this kind of behavior. 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