Clear Your Mind — Before It’s Too Full to Find Yourself
I’ve always believed in change. Real change. The kind where you rip off the mask, stand in front of the mirror, and decide to rewrite the story — no matter how long you’ve been living it. I’ve done it more than once, and I’ll do it again if I have to. That’s what keeps me alive.
But lately, I see people — good people — stuck so deep in their own heads, they can’t even see it. They talk about change like it’s some distant dream, like something only “other people” can do. And why? Because they’ve been stuffing their brains with so much outside noise, there’s no space left for their own thoughts.
They’re recycling the same opinions they heard on TV, or from their friend, or from some online “expert” they’ll never meet. And they don’t even question it — they just repeat it like it’s their truth. Except…it’s not.
And here’s the thing — you can’t clear your life until you clear your mind.
If your brain is looping the same old stories, the same fear-based beliefs someone handed you 30 years ago — how can you even see a way out? How can you know what you actually want if your own voice has been drowned out by everyone else’s garbage?
There’s no shame in getting stuck. But there is power in admitting it.
And sometimes, your brain — just like your phone, your computer, or even your house — needs a hard reset. Not a fancy program, not a quick-fix seminar — but an honest, no-BS clearing out.
Sit in silence. No distractions.
Ask yourself:
What do I actually believe?
Do these thoughts even belong to me?
If I could clear the noise, what would I really want?
Because if you don’t clear that junk, it just keeps piling up — and one day, you won’t even remember who you were before the world filled you up with opinions that aren’t yours.
You deserve better than that.
You deserve to hear your own voice again.
And it’s never too late to clear the way back to yourself.

Mary Smith – Writer – Finance, Relationships, Our Companions, Art & Culture